When done right, constructive criticism is not meant to hurt or humiliate a person. Rather, constructive criticism is meant to build a person and push him / her to reach the next level of success. Learning how to give constructive criticism makes a difference in regards to how others view an individual and also how he or she demonstrates leadership. This issue of Astronology takes a deeper look into how to give constructive criticism in the workplace.
The Fundamentals of Giving Effective Constructive
Criticism
If someone needs to give
constructive criticism to an individual, it is highly important to find an
instrumental time to share this feedback. ChangingMinds.org, a website
dedicated to the book Changing Minds in Detail by David Straker, advises,
“When criticism is needed, do not avoid it, although you should pick your
moment.” Other tips include the following:
- Do not criticize in public
There’s nothing worse than being publicly embarrassed, even
if the mistake is small. It is better to give the recipient his or
her dignity and due privacy.
- Be specific
Explain exactly where the person can improve.
Specifics can help the person receiving the constructive criticism to
understand that he or she is not incompetent, and can make some adjustments in
a specific area to become better.
- Check for understanding
Ensure that the criticism is understood clearly to help
erase any doubts the person may have that he or she is being singled out as a
target. Rather, the feedback is for his or her benefit.
- Check that the individual knows the positive future change focus
Part of making sure that the criticism is understood
includes checking to make certain that the individual perceives the feedback is
for positive future change.
- Discuss what happens next…support the person in moving forward
Make the discussion a positive dialogue by addressing what
happens next. This includes creating goals or steps to move forward. This
step also allows the individual to feel confident he or she has the support
needed, and to view the criticism positively.
Psychotherapist Dr. Barton
Goldsmith Ph. D. also noted
that tone of voice and eye contact are also essential when giving
criticism. Both communicate sincerity, which demonstrates to the
recipient that he or she is receiving positive council.
The Top Three Ways to Give Bad Constructive Criticism
Usnews.com
published an article entitled “7 Mistakes Bosses Make When Giving Criticism.”
Three of these critical mistakes include the following:
- Not Putting The Criticism in Context
- Not Explaining Consequences
By not explaining the consequences for not taking action as
a result of the constructive criticism, the person provided the feedback leaves
himself open to misunderstanding and unnecessary “office drama” between workers
who did not understand the possible consequences sooner.
- Not Having Consequences
Just as bad as not explaining consequences is not having
them at all. The goal is not to “scare” employees into changing. Rather,
it’s imperative to communicate that change is necessary in order to help
motivate. Having some consequences helps to remind employees that they
play important roles in the success of their organizations, and that they must
continue to make progress in order to help build their organizations.
Criticism, even when it’s
constructive, can sometimes hurt. In the workplace, it is highly important that
the person tasked with giving constructive criticism do so in such a manner
that gives the receiver of the feedback due respect and dignity. Sharing
feedback privately, making sure the information is clear and helpful, and
providing it in a positive and supportive manner are all important steps in
making a potentially challenging conversation a positive one.